Who Is Your Biggest Enemy? | Who Is Your Worst Enemy?

 

This would be funny, if it weren’t So tragic, 

Who Is Your Biggest Enemy? – WHO IS Your Worst Enemy?

Any ideas yet?

Something I feel so passionate about….

Because I talk to Gorgeous women All the time, who cannot see how Amazing they are…

..and Yes I confess that was me until relatively Recently….

 

We are Most Often Our Own Worst Enemy.…. 

We Criticise ourselves..

tell ourselves we are Not Good enough...

We hate Looking at ourselves in the mirror…

We hate Having our Photos done…

I posted this on Facebook…yesterday …..

 

Who Is Your Biggest Enemy? – WHO IS Your Worst Enemy?

This is for the women….and men (if you struggle with this)

When did you last look in the mirror….

and smile at yourself and tell yourself something you loved about YOU…

When did you last see a photo of you and Actually ‘like it’…

I got to grips with this when I first started Bikram Yoga some 4.5 years ago…

you spend the whole time (90 mins) watching yourself in the mirror..

So you get used to looking at your body…Kinda confronting !!!

Since i’ve had no problem Looking at my self in the mirror…

Ok sometimes I think ‘omg my bum is big’

but that inspires me to look after myself exercise etc..

I can quite happily smile and say ‘I Love You Helen’…

and tell myself what I love about myself…

This is Sooo empowering…

I’ve also got used to looking at photos of myself…

I’ve got used to my face creasing up when I laugh…

Helen and Danielle laughing

Because Im Happy !! 🙂 

Remember the More You Fall in Love with You…

The More Life will Fall in Love with You…

YOurself Biggest Enemy

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 I was quite surprised to see a few men relate and thank me for posting this…

Helen Lingard

Until We can Love and Accept ourselves.. how on earth can we expect anyone else to?

How Can We Expect to Attract (with that Law of Attraction)  the Things WE LOVE to Ourselves…

How Can we Expect to Attract that man or women or our dreams???

That car? That House? That ‘Fill in the blanks’..??? until we Fall in Love with Ourselves…

We Reflect What We Put Out there…. Via the Law of Attraction.

I wrote this blog a year or so ago .. I hope it helps.. you can find it here. 

Learn To Love yourself First...

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I am Passionate About

Empowering People with  the Law of Attraction.  

If you have a passion that you want to turn into an online business …

… I can show you how we do it…

Everyone has a story to tell,

and there are so many people out

there who Need to hear it…

Come Join Us…

Helen

Helen Lingard

Comments

  1. How do we even know what we love if we can’t love ourselves first?

    I truly believe that is the first step to living an abundant life.

  2. Wow Helen, You are so right, we are our own worst enemy. We all tend to self sabotage ourselves when it does not have to be that way. We need to get out of our own way, lol….Thanks for sharing…

  3. Helen, so true! Most of the time we are our own worst enemy! 🙂

  4. Wow Helen…you sure hit the nail on the head with this post!

    As I said on your FB Video…while trying on clothes last night…looking in the mirror and putting myself down a bit…I would have benefited from your post last night!

    Thanks for the gentle reminder!

  5. I used to be my very worse enemy. Always cutting myself down and so meaning it. Low self esteem…..so glad that part me is gone. Thanks Helen…..

  6. I can so relate to this one Helen.

    I know for me personally, I have been (and on occasion still can be) my own worst enemy. We are so much harder on ourselves than anyone else is.

    I truly believe though, that if you can learn to love yourself unconditionally, so I am slowly working toward that goal. Because once I love myself that much, I can offer so much more love to those in my life.

    Thanks Helen,
    Kristine

  7. We have to be aware of this more and more every day.

  8. Great post Helen. I’ve heard the saying a few times of how can anyone love you if you don’t love yourself first. Thanks so much for reminding me of that 🙂

  9. I can completely relate to this. In the end, I am always my worst enemy which is good. Because we can’t change others, but we can change ourselves. =)

    • Helen Lingard says:

      Absolutely Kristin 🙂 somethingn we have to ‘Get’ the only person we can change is OURSELVES 🙂