Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People

I was having a discussion with a lovely lady recently,  and she bought up this subject, which is pretty close to my heart, as a close relative feels this way too, and I was inspired to share my own personal thoughts.

 

‘I have so many questions about God. Why do bad things happen to good people,
people get abused and bad people rarely get their come uppence.

People are losing their faith left right and centre.

There are 12 law of the Universe and amongst them are ‘Whatever Goes Out Must come Back’ aka the Law of Cause and Affect, Ie  Karma.  I no longer stress about some one doing something nasty to me, I KNOW that it will come back to
them in some shape or form ‘the law of Cause and Effect) so let it go… By the same token when you do good things, then equally good things come back to you. Very often we do not have our eyes open to see these.. Read The Secret, The Power.. any of Rhonda Byrnes, great books and You’ll hear this over and over again.

 

I, myself have felt ‘lifes so unfair myself at times’ , though Im mostly over it now.

Some people very close to me are angry and upset over these sorts of things….

 

However, Its doing you NO Good so as Above

‘Let It Go…’

 

This was my response and I thought I would turn it into a blog, since its Such a Huge subject..

I wasn’t bought up in a religious house hold, having said that I was Christened, so clearly there was ‘something there’…

However, I have spent many years immersed in Self Help, Personal Development, you name it…before and After going through a Very Trying time…

– Im not sure who it is for me

.. God/The Universe, however I KNOW there is something because of the Amazing things that have happened to me, and believe me, I have had lots of hate, anger, hurt in my life.

The more I work on me, which is becoming more Spiritual, the More I am Open to there being a ‘God’…
and I don’t blame Him/Her/it.. for anything…

Life can be challenging…  I have seen awful things happen to people…. however I also believe that we create our own reality…

I’ve had awful things happen to me, honestly.. seriously, the Sh*t Really hitting the fan, believe me !!

Now I know this is a controversial subject, however if we all took a bit more responsibility for our own lives, then we would ALL be a lot happier…

We are our own worst enemy …

We bring Stuff to us..

We don’t Love ourselves enough,

We don’t Forgive ourselves and We Constantly  Blame others…

My Ex did this, My Mother did this, My Father did this…

Something I learnt from Louise Hay several years ago was

‘We Are All Doing The Best We Can With What We have, When We Know Better, We Will Do Better’

Turn whatever it is around to ‘What Can I learn from this’ ‘Whats things here to teach me’?

Very Empowering

How To Have Good Things Happen to Good People

So Start Forgiving yourself and others, Use Faster EFT, Journalling, whatever works for you… I have written on tall these modalities…

My sister died suddenly 10 years ago… That was really tough – and we were estranged – so it was doubly tough..

That taught me so much… Kindness, Compassion, Let It Go !! 🙂

We are All Bundles of Energy – Good and Bad, depending on what your thoughts are…

Your Energy – affects other people… Hence when the world is focussed on ‘how bad things are’.. think of what thats doing to the World? All that bad energy…

Hence why when people put their energy into Good things, Meditation, Self Love, Love for others.. thats putting Great energy out there..

There have been studies done,

Many years ago, there was a a Reduction in Crime, A study took place in New York in 1993, you can read more here…

There is irrefutable evidence that backs this up..

Work on Loving Yourself, The More You Love Yourself, the More Accepting and Loving Of Others You become, the higher your vibration, The Better the Energy surrounding you…

 

I just love this Mother Teresa Quote,  I just love and its something I have to remind myself of constantly when someone upsets me, or is rude to me…

 

 

 

I came across this guy Jon Morrow recently – what an amazing human being – he really puts so much into perspective for me…  he also introduced me via his recommendations to this guy…

Self Love is Absolutely the answer…

Know that there are not Good or Bad people.. People are not loving themselves enough..

Another great phrase I heard several years ago, which has really helped me is

Hurt People, Hurt people –

this helped me so much.

I was bullied both as child and an adult. This helped me realise that those people who bullied me, were not bad people – they are just hurt people.. Who have lost their way and need Self Love, plus the love from others.. so give it to them..

No you don’t have to hug those who hurt you, you can either quietly send them love or perhaps if its someone you know – you can write a card… Or even write a letter to them, writing out how you feel and then destroy it.. believe me it works…

I hope this has helped you…

There is So much Good in the World, however what you Focus on, you will bring about…
If You want to See A Better World…

Then Work On You…

Turn Off The News.. Plug in, instead to the Good News Network

Wake Up and Do A Rampage of Gratitude

If you’re reading this, thats something to be grateful for !! 🙂 You’re still here, many people are not…

I take a walk every day and look up in amazement at the beautiful views

 

This was taken on a normal day, at sunset.. I just walked to the side of this lake and wow…

You will find what you are Focussing on, I Focus on finding beauty, on being grateful…

Believe me, it hasn’t always been easy.. I have been through a lot of ‘Sh*t’ and I still go through challenges, however I focus on gratitude.

 

We All Have a Choice..

Before I go, let me just share something quite astonishing with you.  I have been open to Good Things for the last ‘ooh several months’ and they have come thick and fast..

I’ve been given Lovely clothes, Money, Holidays… and now Im being given great videos, two of which I am sharing here.

Remember what you Look for You Will Find.. So Look for the BEAUTY in You and in Others, Look for the Kindness in your heart, and in others… and Smile 🙂

If you look at my Facebook page, you won’t find a bad story…

I Know that bad things happen, however I cannot do anything about them, however I can Be The Best Version of Me

and thus make a difference myself.. so can You…

Two last things before I go… If you have lost someone, as I have, and you feel it was too son and you like some people close to me are angry.. Turn it around and Be Grateful for the time you got with them, Hold onto the memories… its what I chose to do and it helps 🙂

I want to leave you with this very special St Francis Prayer… I was an avid follower of Dr Wayne Dyer and as I say, Im not Religious.. however for me ‘whatever helps’ and I know this helps

 

If you’d like to know more about Becoming your best Version, and attracting All that You Desire and Deserve then

Please get in touch..

Helen

Im here to Help You..